Monday, July 11, 2011

The First Fish Fry

When I was younger we often attended our Sunday services at the LDS church and then went to church with my Granny, who was a member of a Baptist church. Although it made for a very long Sunday, I enjoyed attending church with my Granny. Even though she was not Mormon, Granny was always at our church because she attended whenever we asked her to. If there was a Primary program she was there, if there was a baptism she was there, ward activity there, pretty much if we sneezed and we wanted her at church with us, she was there.

Of course Granny loved us, but I think much of her willingness to attend church with us was because my parents allowed her grandchildren to attend church with her also. My Granny is no longer with us and I cannot express how grateful I am for those extra long Sundays, they are precious memories that I cherish, memories centered on Christ.

There were special Sundays at Granny's church where they had a dinner after the service. A fish fry! (A cookout or other meal at which fried fish is the main course.) On those Sundays we could clap our hands, stomp our feet, praise the Lord, and then get something to eat! On that Sunday you had better get there early if you wanted a seat, the Lord had a packed house that day. I would look around the chapel at all the people stuffed in the pews and think, "I hope the church ladies cooked enough, because I sure am hungry."

The choir was always good at Granny's church, but on fish fry Sunday, they were exceptional. The Preacher was of course a little long winded. He probably figured he needed to hit the Lord's message home for those in the congregation that wouldn't be coming back until next year's fish fry. As soon as the preacher said Amen, everyone would make a mad dash for outside. I would stand there in line with my plate thinking "Oh, I hope I make it up there before all of Granny's greens are gone."

When I finally reached the table, spread with a variety of wonderful foods, a church lady named something like Miss Mildred would take my plate and begin to serve me. Then I would have to tell her, "Miss Mildred, could I have the greens from that pot over there?" And she'd say, "They're all the same, greens are greens." And of course she knew that was lie, because we all knew about the pot of greens from the really nice church lady who couldn't cook, but always wanted to provide something. They kept it in the kitchen and everyone prayed that we didn't run out of greens and have to bring her pot out.

"Please," I'd say, "My Granny made the ones in that pot." She'd act like she was miffed about it, but then she'd give me a scoop of them. "Just a little more please, Miss Mildred," I'd say, after I saw how tiny the scoop was. "Look here, we've got a lot of people to serve," she'd tell me. Then somebody would pass by, maybe the Preacher, and he'd say, "Come on now Sister Mildred, if Jesus could feed 5000 with 5 loaves and 2 fish, then I'm sure we'll be all right...give the baby a little more greens." Then Miss Mildred would smile at the Preacher, and give me a good size helping. After the Preacher had left she would look at me and say, "Alright now, you got plenty of greens, I better not see you up here asking for seconds."

I'd take my plateful of food to the table my family was sitting at, and look around. Everyone was happy and smiling and everyone was fed, all those people and everyone got a plate. Then I would wonder if that was what it was like when Jesus feed the 5000. Maybe Jesus looked around and everyone was happy and smiling and well fed. As I would take a bite of that delicious, golden, crispy fish, and it melted in my mouth, I'd imagine that as good as this fish tasted, Jesus' must of been even more divine. Boy, I would have loved to have been at Jesus' fish fry!

Now that My Granny's gone, I don't see many fish fry Sundays, but I'm still well fed. You see, when you feast on the Savior's word, you are always full. Everyone can partake; there is plenty to go around at the Lord's table. It was an absolute miracle when Jesus fed 5000 with just 5 loaves of bread and 2 fish, and if we let him, he can feed us all too, the entire world. That's billions of people, oh what a fish fry that would be!

Peace and blessings,
Sista Laurel

22 comments:

Melissa Johnson,  July 11, 2011 1:55 PM  

Just what I needed today :)

John Teal,  July 11, 2011 2:05 PM  

Excellent outlook on life as always, thankyou

Kevin Barney,  July 11, 2011 2:10 PM  

A lovely reminiscence, Sista Laurel. Thanks.

Danielle,  July 11, 2011 2:11 PM  

Talk about a time warp -- I think you just took me back about 25 years! Thinking about potluck suppers at the Baptist church I grew up in brings a tear to my eye and makes me thankful for the foundation of faith that was built there. Thanks for sharing!

robyn,  July 11, 2011 3:43 PM  

Perfect. I loved it too!

Chameleonskies,  July 11, 2011 4:47 PM  

That was beautiful. Thanks for sharing.

Alice Gold @imsofunny,  July 11, 2011 5:12 PM  

Ah man, I lived in TN all that time and never went to a fish fry. What was I thinking? You made my mouth water with this one. And, yes, greens, can actually be edible by a white girl if she finds them cooked by just the right person. all greens are not created equal.

Thanks for the post. I know you wrote it just for me.

pitterpatterchildren,  July 11, 2011 7:23 PM  

Love that one today.  when I was in a singles ward, they always broke the fast by having a potluck dinner together at the church.  It was my favorite Sunday tradition.  Wish I could have gone to one of your granny's fish frys!

Morgan July 11, 2011 7:42 PM  

This is absolutely beautiful! Thanks for such an uplifting story and message. :) 

Suzanne Richardson,  July 11, 2011 10:44 PM  

I am so loving your stories! I want to go to a fish fry now... I am way up here in WA state, I am sure they gotta have one somewhere. Thanks so much for making me laugh and cry all in one sitting, you R-O-C-K! ~ Hugs ♥

john f. July 12, 2011 4:34 AM  

What's your calling in your ward? Maybe you can put things in motion to have a fish fry of your own once a year in your ward. Could be a missionary reach-out possibility as well. And you could make your Granny's greens as a fitting contribution.

Jocelyn Christensen,  July 12, 2011 10:34 AM  

Excellent post...and now I'm hungry! :)  What an awesome memory!

Sue July 12, 2011 11:25 AM  

Loved this post...and your wonderful memories of grandma's church and the fish fry.

=)

Wendy,  July 12, 2011 11:40 AM  

Thanks for sharing about how wonderful your Granny and parents were to encourage the relationships and to give you a "double helping" on Sundays. What precious truths are learned from feeding all of God's children! Thanks for something to ponder.

Jeanne,  July 12, 2011 12:56 PM  

I love, love, love the way you write!  Thank you for sharing such precious memories.

Grandma Honey,  July 12, 2011 9:02 PM  

I'm impressed that as a young child you loved greens!

Also, as a Grandma myself now, this post encourages me to keep traditions alive with my grandchildren.

Love the way you write!

Anonymous,  July 12, 2011 9:30 PM  

Especially concerning his hobbies.

Living Waters by LeAnn,  July 13, 2011 11:38 PM  

What a delightful post. I loved the descriptions of your Sunday fish fry and of course times with your Granny. I loved the analogy of being well fed.
Blessings to you! 

Aaron R. July 15, 2011 6:25 AM  

A wonderful post. Thank you for sharing.

Aaron July 15, 2011 1:09 PM  

A wonderful post. Thank you for sharing.

MissPattie,  July 16, 2011 8:54 PM  

As a Virginian, I loved going to the Southern Baptist church and Bible School.  It was such a refreshing break from the Mormon church.  Wish we could spice up the Mormon Church meetings more

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